I cleaned out my closet...

on asking questions, letting go, and finding my personal style at 38

I cleaned out my closet. 

Or rather, I’ve been cleaning out my closet for about a year now. I’ll pull out a pink cotton gauze sundress or a pair of high-waisted paper bag pants, fold them, and tuck them into a plastic tote I keep in my closet. 

Sometimes, when I am late and can’t put together an outfit, I have NOTHING to wear! alarm bells go off, and I’ll…